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Good morning, I don’t know if I have done a blog on this subject. But this is what today’s is called. It’s something we as humans need. It’s required for us to function . I am going to ask you a question now. When was the last time that you told the people you love that you actually do Love them. I am sure some men find it all weird when we say those words. “I love you” I have never had a problem with saying those words myself. But meaning them now that’s a different story.
Today is Sunday, a day of worship some say. Some say it’s important to go to church today because it’s Sunday. Some say we should go to a place of worship on a Saturday. Does it matter really, does it really matter what day we goto church. Does it matter if indeed we go to church, will we get punished. Myself I don’t think it matters, what I think matters is how you are to your fellow man. A church will teach younger people that love and respect is a good thing, that respecting those older is important. Now there is nothing wrong with any of that right.
Love is a gift that we choose to give to each other, from one person to another. It’s a priceless gift, yet it costs nothing. Does it matter what race, creed or colour so one is, not to me. But it still matters how those people treat others, it still matters that they are loved as well. Personally I love to do things that show love to others, giving not taking. It does not need to be big, like a dog guard for the car, it can be something simple, like picking up a paint brush and helping. The action does not matter as long as it’s to make the other person feel better, and make the other person feel like they are special.
It’s comes down to you again doesn’t it, you are in control of this.. How you love your wife, husband, children, parents, brother, sister, or a friend. It’s your choice how you make them feel, it’s your choice what you do to make them feel loved. I know how a simple drawing, a painting. I know how much love and energy those little girls gave to me by showing me love! by doing those simple things for me. What’s amazing is you can’t see what you have done, when you show someone love. But one thing I do know, that is that, even after you have shown that person, and given love to that person. It stays with them even after you have left where they are.
To Love can be a hard thing to do, it involves humility. It involves vunrability, and the willingness to put yourself open to be hurt. It’s about doing and being the best we can be. If we are the best we can be no one can ask more than that. I love the moment when you choose to love someone, and you see their eyes light up. You just can’t exsplain the energy that gives. It’s like an internal cleanse that makes you feel amazing.
Choose love today, choose to make someone’s day allot better than without you in it.
Mark
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foodieaffairnetwork said:
I like your blog layout so beautiful. I follow your blog and I hope you will follow mine too eventually:-) foodieaffairnetwork.wordpress.com
I look forward to reading more of your work.
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Ilona Elliott said:
What a beautiful post! I love the moment when you choose to love someone..such a wise and joyful statement. Thanks for sharing this. Happy Valentines Day.
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fonzandcancer said:
Thank you for your kind comments. 😊
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Afshan Farooq said:
Beautifully expressed thoughts !
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fonzandcancer said:
Thank you 😊
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lookingforthelightblog.wordpress.com said:
Mark
I forgot to say Lyme Disease has severely effected my cognitive ability. You will find grammar errors, misspelled words and maybe words that are not words.
M
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fonzandcancer said:
I don’t look at grammar in blogs or messages. It’s content that’s important.
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lookingforthelightblog.wordpress.com said:
Hi Mark
I’m from across the pond but love is the same everywhere. I believe we think alike in the matter of love. I would add, love yourself.
I have Chronic Lyme Disease and realized while my heart if filled with hope for others, how did I feel about myself. I’ve been sick for years and blogging has opened my heart beyond expectations. I’m not sure if arrogance or naiveté kept me from looking at me, how can I fulfill a need in my spirit. Reducing inflammation is important in getting well. I’ve day was stressful thinking people needed me, I was a leader, I can do it. That mentality came from my successful career days.
The past 13 years I’ve taken care of both grandparent astray were dying. Hospitalized twice in a suicidal state, years to discover my heart problem and Lyme took almost two years. I would not trade a minute, it’s sounds crazy. I am wiser today for my experiences, truly understanding unconditional love. It’s a hard shell to break for some, especially those with baggage.
You post lit a flame to me simmering fire. I may sound like a not case, but hey aren’t we al at times.
I’m following you and hope we can converse, quit possibly help each other and the WP community.
Thanks my friend
M
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fonzandcancer said:
This is one you may like Love yourself. | fonzandcancer blogging daily to encourage.
I have written lots on the subject put the word love or what ever u want to read about in the search box. Seems Lyme is something Americans are experiencing. Not many people hear suffer from it. I would imagine though it’s like fatigue that chemo leaves you with. Do I take by your m sign off your name is Emma or are you the m replacement in the bond movie?
Mark
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fonzandcancer said:
Reblogged this on fonzandcancer blogging daily to encourage. and commented:
Written in June last year, but thought maybe some may like to read it today…..
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pandyb said:
Reblogged this on pandyb.
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