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You may never ever have the effect on the world, if you don’t actually say to someone what you think you have to say. What you have to say, could change the whole direction of someone’s life for the better. Yet you don’t say what you have to say, and there may be no effect, or maybe the effect of you not saying something neglected to encourage someone that needed to hear what you have to say. See that’s what I have struggled with in recent days, that my blog is not effective, encouraging, or maybe even futile. Yes I thought those thoughts.
Why did I even think such absolute rubbish, why did I rob someone of a post that should have been written but never was. We will never know what those posts were, what they would have said or how the may have affected people. But one thing I do know is, I personally have to be of the right mind to write. You know that I speak with truth and integrity and from my very own experience. I was talking to my dad, (who possibly is my worst critic) and he encouraged me to continue. That it was worth while doing what I am doing. Writing here to you. I am not able to tell you how many times I wanted to give up, how many times I heard small voices saying things like ” no one wants to hear what you write ” ” no one even understands your words ” such lies. Such de motive lies. Such useless unviable and needless ethics. Just not what is really happening.
I write, so one person a day may feel encouragement, and I believe that happens everyday. I believe a power greater than I puts my posts in front of someone that needs it everyday. So again I say. ” I will carry on ” I WILL! Deter me, do your best to de energise me. Then I will rise up stronger again, because what I believe I should do I will do. Only now have I realised it should have been pool night tonight. But no one text. Maybe it’s I that should make it happen. Maybe it’s you that should say what you have to say.
After all, there is only you on this planet that is able to say what you have to say. How powerful is that. Only you…..
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Fonz
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Good advice from your Dad. You have the power to help so many people by your good work and words of encouragement. Don’t give up!
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I’m sure your words encourage a lot of people, in whatever circumstances they find themselves. Do carry on and I hope it all helps you too.
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Although you write to encourage others (which is my motivation also), perhaps the best writing of all is your honest feelings – being human and imperfect. I found healing when I did that. And ultimately, those were the words that gave hope to other people after all.
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Thank you for the reminder of encouragement.
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True, we all have a unique story. We can affect someone else in a good or a bad way. It’s our choice.
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I’m glad you’re writing. I still have those waves wash over me. But like you say, it’s all about saying what you need to say. If no one ever read a thing, you would have this journal to go back to later and remember where you were and how far you’ve come. Thanks for sharing – I enjoy reading when people share from the heart – and that you do. in lak’ech, Debra
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Thanks for your encouragement 😊
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