I wrote this 1 year ago. Funny how your own words sometimes get said right back at yourself….
The power of forgiveness
In life there are many hurdles, some are quite nice and are not an endurance others are a real struggle. Most however require honesty, mostly with yourself. You see if your happy with who you are, you more often than not make the right choices. The only thing we can’t do is make other people’s for them.
We have to learn to accept people for who they are, which I find real hard as my standards in people are so great. I won’t settle for second best, I won’t stand for wishy washy people, that have self richeous opinions. But what I do try to be is honest with all people, which gets me into trouble sometimes.
Who is right, I am open to opinions. One thing I am very aware of is that forgiveness sets others free and no matter what I think or what…
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fonzandcancer blogging to encourage. 
Excellent, Fonz!
Someone told me that when we refuse to forgive someone it’s like we are carrying them around on our back…a heavy load…we are burdened and struggling, but it’s not affecting that person at all.
Forgiveness can be difficult. But necessary. Very freeing to both the forgiver and the forgivee! 🙂
I’ve been amazed at some of the stupid, hurtful things people have said to me since my cancer diagnosis. But, for my own sake, I have to forgive them, and move forward.
(((HUGS)))
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Well summed up xx I am glad you were and are able to forgive xx
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I do feel exactly the same like you. I’m very sensitive, better highly sensitive and life with wishy washy people or self righteous people is very difficult. I’m sometimes nearly desperate that it’s so hard to find people that understand me and cherish me. I’m honest, too and a lot of times get into troubles. Good to know that there are similar persons.
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Very similar 😊
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