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Delete button. Or is it the divorce button.
All to easy to do that isn’t it. Press delete and it’s no longer there, the app or the frustrating game you waste so much time playing. But what’s frustrating me so much with this want it now society? Well it’s not the fact that people drive around in cars that they don’t own, or the fact that people want a burger and fries with immediate affect when they want it. Not so much that now isn’t soon enough. My concern is for the mental state of mankind. That it’s becoming so easy to get a 55inch TV without paying for it. That you can get a settee and pay nothing for 2 years or what ever. What bothers me is people don’t TALK anymore. That people have a difference of opinion and that’s the end of that. That friendships and relationships seem to be about what people can get rather than what they can give.
My parents married for 50 years!
That “what can I get” is more heard of than what can I give. You see that’s why relationships and friendships break down. Not because they are not loved by you, or that you are not loved. Infact you are either inconsiderate, or selfish. The world ends up with so much disharmony because people think they can just throw stuff away. Even people are thrown away, which is why device is on the rise. The older generation had it right, once you were married it was for life. Still is in my book. But not all of us have the very noble and healthy opinions. Because it’s all to easy to separate. Than to carry on working things out.
People that have been married for long periods of time, have to work at it. They have to say sorry and not go to bed on an argument. Me and Andie my wife always start the day with a kiss and end it with a kiss. We always have a kiss to look forwards to. We trust that we have each other no matter what. Loving someone takes effort it’s not something that’s easy. I don’t understand these girls and boys that have children together and then split up.
Listen I know life’s tough, but choose to give and not take away and life would be better for everyone. Putting your arm around someone is not difficult. But saying sorry means so much. Let’s make choices that give, as opposed to taking. To have the attitude, what can I give, is so much more attractive that what can I have.
Possibly people’s mental health would be improved, and in turn lives children ect ect we all need security. Will you choose to give that? Or do you want what you can get? Choose what’s best for others not just you.
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People often seem shocked to find out I am married and then ask if my husband is a weirdo. About 3 years into our marriage and not long after our son was born, I was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder that causes severe joint damage. As a result I have been a wheelchair user for several years. The very thing that turned our lives upside down brought us closer together. Simply put — when he said “in sickness and in health”, he meant it. Other things in our lives are hard, but we face it together. We don’t have some kind of magical romantic superpower. We just decided to face whatever life throws at us together. This gimpy chick doesn’t feel cursed in this broken body. Instead, I feel like I won the lottery because I have a man who loves me no matter what, a wonderfully weird child and another on the way. Life is good, even when it isn’t perfect.
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Totally lovely to read that reality in your lives. Your husband found true love, and that does not change because of your condition or his. Just different circumstances to deal with. We are fortunate that we have found people that love us without condition. You sound lovely not the gimp you suggest. All people deserve real love and it’s sad for the ones that marry for money. Their lives must be so empty. Love to you Both and Merry Christmas. ππΌπ
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So very true, we have become a “throw away” “What’s in it for me” society when in fact our relationships with others, love, respect and kindness is what really matters. Nothing comes easy, work at it…your words are spot on.
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Thanks a lot Dawn. Sounds like your speaking from experience?
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I think it is just life experience as you get older and you appreciate what is really important. My parents have just celebrated 57 years married – like your parents 50 years, these days it is a huge achievement. I feel for our younger people carried away with reality tv which isn’t reality at all. Perfect bodies, perfect hair, cars, houses etc. We label people, we want everything but not prepared to work for it, which means it has no value because we haven’t worked to achieve it.
I gave up my corporate world this year to become a full time carer to my parents. I’ve never worked so hard in my life and I wouldn’t change a thing as hard as it can be. Definitely the right decision.
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wonderful and true words which are really very important. I hope that a lot of people read this
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Thanks, I hope so to for humanity. ππΌ
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You raised a very important and deep issue.
Everything worthwhile needs hard work. You are a good example of this.
Take care.
Roger
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