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what do you want to be? What drives you, what Spurs you on. Well do you mind if I attempt to tell you what drives me. my world has changed dramatically in the last 10 years. My ideas were always about chasing money, wealth to achieve happiness. I am a really keen F1 fan and I remember a quote from Ron Dennis which rings true in my mind “money is only a problem if you don’t have any” it’s so true. I was always striving for the next big thing, the next quick money making scheme , I was driven by greed. I was driven by what I had, not what I could give.
As I have gotten older I realise the words of the Robbie Williams song “youth is wasted on the young”from the song eternity. It really is, because by the time you realise what’s real important in life, it’s to late and we are not young anymore. http://youtu.be/P0aZNEXdFCE
My life has been turned inside out and upside down, learningn to use this strong body and mind in many different ways over the years. Although never more so in this room, solitude in isolation has helped find what’s of real importance. I am sure I will never be annoyed by birds doings on my car again. I will enjoy the love of my family whole heartedly. I will never exspect again, only cherish and cultivate that which has become so very dear to me. “Life”
Picture above will be me when I leave here, although it will take 3 months to get strong enough to be like this doggy.
I want to Dance like no one is watching again.
Never looking back just moving forwards to the goal that is the most very important.Have you figured it out yet? what the most important thing on earth we can process is? It’s a bit of a trick question really. Because it can’t be bought, you can’t gaze at it like my beutiful TVR.
It’s not something you can touch or hold, it’s so precious it’s priceless. What I speak of comes from within, it comes from contentment, it comes from being at peace however you find that. It comes from spiritual contentment and being able to just LET God.
I am classed by some kids of people we love, as a superhero, so one who is indestructible. I am not indistructble I am just as delicate as the next man. 1 thing I am though and that’s Happy. That’s the key to all these eliments put together. Happiness. See if we have that we are wealthy, rich and abounding with beauty with in us. Loving yourself is an amazing thing. I mean who’s gonna turn round and tell me or you that your not happy only you know that, only you know how you are inside.
Have a great day and I hope you to will become happy inside with your choices as opposed to striving for more which just makes us slaves. I want to help people with Cancer forever. I want to encourage people everyday to be better people. Giving fulfils us inside, giving warms our hearts like we have never know.
You gonna do that today? Give to someone and make you happy?
I hope so.
Fonz
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I don’t really have an insightful comment – but I wanted to let you know that your post took my breath away. You should know what an inspirational man you are. I feel honored to be reading your blog.
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WOW….
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very thoughtful post. yes we have to live humbly in a loving spirit.
In friendship
Michel
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Reblogged this on fonzandcancer blogging to encourage. and commented:
This is one of the most energising blogs I have ever written. I do hope you read the original post. It’s well worth the 3 minuites of your life.
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Mark you are so very strong and I’m sure you will beat this terrible disease, I’m thinking about you and Andie and remember it’ll soon be gone and you will be home recuperating. xx
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Can’t come soon enough for me Kath x
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Reblogged this on pandyb.
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Do You know Mark? Like everyone else I always complained about going to work, not being able to enjoy the sun when I am at work etc but, since discovering this site and with what happened to my mum. I’ve learned to take every day as it comes, and enjoy just being here and being happy. Yes, I would love a different job to what I do (carer) I would like to have my own cafe/crafty style shop as I love baking and craft work. But, it’s not always so easy to do unfortunately. But I’m happy and that’s the main thing. I’m off to work shortly, have a happy weekend, and I hope you’re gaining more and more strength each day. Love to you and Andie 😃xx
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You are awesome Debbie, remember that. We send our love n can’t wait to squeeze you when I get outta here. It’s been a long old rd. Cafe…. Make it happen Debbie, what’s stopping you? Xx
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